I work with some great ladies that say the same thing about men...find the right lady is like finding Bitcoin, and your life will become infinitely better
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There’s a massive difference, the legal system is rigged against men. And women know it, so the minute you don’t behave the way they want or they decide they aren’t “happy” anymore, and if they decide to be spiteful or vindictive they can destroy your life.
I’m 47, and I can’t count how many stories I know of people I personally know this happening to. Life should be about living a life together and having a family and it is better that way, but the system has eroded that dream away and dismantled the family unit. Women can’t find men because all the good ones are one the other side of family court disemboweled lol.
I've heard countless stories like this and it sucks. A society that doesn't favor the natural nuclear family is doomed. As a fallible human being I also know it's important that we OWN our mistakes and don't cast blame on a system. Right now our system is easy to hit the escape hatch rather than doing the work to build lasting relationships and families
Yep, part of my original comment was working on yourself. People do not want to do that, both men and women.. I do have hope that the pendulum will swing the other way and there is also going to be a paradigm shift across our planet.. I believe it’s already happening