One has to generalise when talking about people as all so different. Otherwise you’d write a thesis instead of a post. No need to apologise.

Maybe a lot of this kind of stuff simply comes down to being more open about expectations. At the end of the day though, if purely wealth and material, regardless man or woman, it’s probably not the most healthy metric for any relationship so the whole game these days is a going to end up a little toxic if those are the metrics.