Anyone here on nostr can tell you....

I used to have somewhat of a similar attitude...

(Still do on some subjects, but that's for another time maybe)

My point is that you have to opt into privacy and decentralization.

Theres some work involved to get them and solve your concerns with nostr. Im still figuring it out too but privacy and decentralization are not just given to you.... because you're here.

The only thing that is given to you just for being here.... is your digial freedom of speech.

You can post anything you want to here, but will suffer the social consequences of such.

Speaking from experience here too....