I hope that doesn’t sound flippant. Not meant to. The hardest realisation is the lack of control we have. Trying in any way to have total control blocks the flow of life which is generally positive and brings to you if you allow it. Attempting control is merely blocking life bringing you things. Sometimes more comes with less thought. It’s like some of the greatest scientists and inventors right. Sit down frustratingly trying to figure something out until they give up and go for walk in nature and just be. And the. It comes to them. Flash of inspiration on a moment of being