I read through many of the replies to this post, this is the one I liked the most.
I agree. The focus should be elsewhere. A discussion about values is far more interesting than putting blame on anyone.
I've thought about what values bitcoin operate best under.
Judging by what's happening with BIP110, and every other "consensus debate", how we arrive at consensus changes.
It's possible to extract the values that have shown to align people, and arrive at a solution that benefits everyone.
Maybe we can extract those values together.