Shit, I answered and event has not be saved...
I was saying something like this:
Why me? 😁
Default relays configuration in client is bad according to me.
Clients should read NIP 65 instead of proposing a list of relays for existing users.
Astral is back on track! #[0] did it again! https://astral.ninja is blazing fast now!
Actually I failed to find #[1] in both snort and nostrgram, so I tried Astral and not only did it work instantly there, all the rest is snappy, too! 🤞
Discussion
I forgot one thing in the initial message.
Maybe you didn't had common relay with me in snort and nostrgram?
That's certainly a flaw with how we currently use nostr but as all three clients supposedly use at least my configured list of popular relays and nostrgram even "all known relays" if I remember correctly, I'm not sure this was the problem.
"you" because I came across https://github.com/Dolu89/nostr-proxy while adding it to https://nostr.info/resources/
🤦♂️ what did I just write? Well, you get it ;)