If you finished reading what I wrote, you'd see I agreed with you... Look man, theres not much to argue on this, for millenia in civilizationz around the world , outside of royalty/nobility, women could not participate in the political sphere without a pseudonym or without a man championing them.

In the USA, Feminism started in large part for women's right to vote.

Did that movement get hijacked after they recieved the right to vote, sure.

Are there things that have derailed absolutely.

Im all for your ideas of family and gender roles, but we can't just make up history now.