i've used haven from bitvora in the past, but that seems overkill. but tbh i wanted to get into nostr dev since months, but i just didn't take the time to do so. that means i don't know exactly what i would like in a personal relay, i just didn't think about it that much. i am big into self-hosting and would like something at relay.[mydomain] which i can point clients to

also this was just an idea that came to my mind when i was watching your video introducing rely v1. i would probably watch a stream/video of you developing something with rely. but in no way i want you to do something, just because i asked for it