I saw a former coworker today and without skipping a beat I hugged her with all my might. I think that was the first time I had ever hugged her. Then I made her exchange numbers with me. This all happened in a span of a minute. Now mind you we only knew each other for a short period of time. So this is my dilemma, she rang my phone so I could have her number. I texted her once about 15 minutes after with a heart emoji to let her know I got it. Then four hours later, I wrote it was nice bumping into you. Seven hours laters, she writes It was! Do I play it cool and text her whenever or do I literally text right back? I can see it, but I don't want to be too eager, because I think she is cool....so since I am a moron with this kind of thing, when do I text her back?
Discussion
Instead of playing the text game just ask her out for coffee or ice cream now. The mind games over text are daunting, just cut to the chase. She’s either interested or not.
So I should ask her to be my new best friend, like right now? just kidding, maybe...i did send a text that said: 😊 let's chat soon. (it's kind of late here)
You set up the line of communication for some reason, go for it and see how it plays out