Definitely not trying to “flex” on anyone and happy to talk in private about your specific situation.
Discussion
Sorry, not accusing you of flexing. Just how I've seen these discussions go. I think 90 % of users that self custody are securing seeds in their home, and that can vary from bad to good. Eg. writing your seeds on a post-it note to stamping your seeds in stainless and hiding them away.
Mainly I think it depends on the expected value of your coins