Thank you Paul! Very well written and reflected.

I had the same thought when i saw it, even felt pity for the woman.

When i realized that i felt pity for her i also realized that i was judging her. So i went the other direction: What if her statement is correct?

What if she means not literaly "ignoring" but she means boundaries?

"Setting boundaries to the outside since forever, zero backing down."

Only she knows her true intention. I hope it is the intention of boundaries, because i see so much value in setting boundaries.