Yeah, same. I'm pretty big even for The Netherlands, do martial arts. And I look like a serial killer and mostly get attention from gay guys… so there ya go 🫤

Maybe too much info.

I see women tighten up in the situations Lyn mentioned. For me it's just we end up on the same sketchy street at the same moment and I'm like "Awww, this sucks. How can I make this less threatening?" but there's nothing I can think of.