Well, if you have well documented guides I'm all ears because so far I've explored Alby Hub/Alby Go, and Zeus.

But if there's something even better than those like electrum of course I'm open.

Unfortunately for me electrum, and stuff like that might take me some time to learn how to navigate.

I want to be as puritanical with lightning as possible as someone like nostr:nprofile1qqs9p3kw9e5u7za00x6jfz9jqsvvffheefaaptr9fdrzf4wqyh840kcpzamhxue69uhhyetvv9ujumn0wd68ytnzv9hxgtcegpufl perhaps, or others but it seems like the upfront set up can be somewhat problematic.

For me it's plausible but for the average person 80 to 100 iq person self-hosted lightning is an unrealistic ask.