People being able to tag each other and sometimes filter based on the tags is no worse than people being able to mute each other
We need a culture shift in favor of trying to have time for people, not permanently muting hand-operated npubs
Devs should also priorize labeling over filtering. Bitcoiners who mute me for using other coins piss me off; bitcoiners who put a red box around all my posts on their screen would still be weird, but not isolating