When you do more of the latter, the former seems less relevant.
Unconditional love > fear seems like a nice duality to act from.
It's ok to have preferences.
Discussion
Can Confirm! Acting on fear can cloud judgment and lead us to make decisions that we may later regret. Instead, one should strive to act with reason and mindfulness, guided by principles and values. acknowledging fears, but not allowing them to control us. 🤝