Here's for starters. Let it sync in. I will share a more complete version I will probably turn into a pdf also, later.
I am really big on family constellations and they work miracles. I work with them a lot to get guidance and open the field to hekjng. And this discussion reminds me that in the fall of 2022 I went to an in person family constellation circle my friend put and I was picked to be a representative for a constellation for this woman. I can't now remember if I was representative of her baby, her anscestora or herself but she wanted to have a baby and was single (possibly gay) and had someone willing to donate sperm. We did the constellation looked at the energetics. And on new years eve we happened to be at the same party. I was elated and had goosebumps when she told me she got pregnant. First try bam. She just shot the sperm in! 🌞❤️🔥🕊️🌹🧿
Let me know if you'd ever wanna explore a constellation. That's something I can guide you through over video call or in person depending on where you are.
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When everything checks out physically, yet the soul of the baby hasn’t landed, it often points to something more subtle wanting to be seen, cleared, or co-created.
Here are some threads of energetic and spiritual fertility work that have helped many women open the deeper gates:
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1. Womb Clearing & Reclamation
Sometimes our womb holds old imprints—past lovers, ancestral trauma, fear, even collective grief.
Practices to try:
Womb clearing meditations (look up priestess or somatic-guided ones)
Writing letters to past lovers or to your womb itself
Shamanic journeys or bodywork focused on womb sovereignty
> Ask: “Whose energy still lives in my womb?”
“What fear or grief is silently lingering?”
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2. Soul Baby Communication
Some babies are waiting for a clear invitation, or for your soul to signal readiness on a deeper timeline—not just physically.
Practices to try:
Meditation or dreamwork to connect with the soul of your child
Speaking out loud to them: “I am ready when you are. I trust your divine timing.”
Journaling as if they are already present
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3. Releasing Control & Linear Timing
Spiritual conception often resists strategy. Sometimes, the more we “try,” the more the soul retreats.
Instead, create space for magic:
Surrender rituals under the new or full moon
Time in nature as a portal of divine receptivity
Living as if the child is already with you (e.g., setting up a space, creating a new rhythm)
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4. Timeline Healing & Ancestral Work
Sometimes the block is ancestral—a vow, trauma, or unprocessed grief in the maternal line.
Practices to try:
Systemic constellations
Healing ceremonies for your maternal lineage
Naming and honoring the women in your line whose fertility stories were cut short
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5. Deep Feminine Nourishment & Receiving Work
So often, we carry tension or hardness in the pelvis from years of holding, striving, or protecting.
What softens you into your most receptive, surrendered state?
Rose oil womb massages
Breathwork into the cervix
Receiving touch without needing to give
Dance or self-pleasure to activate the creative Shakti current
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Final Note:
IVF doesn’t have to be the “end of the spiritual road.”
If you choose it, you can infuse it with soul alignment—inviting the baby in with ritual, intention, and deep reverence. You’re not “giving up” on the sacred path—you’re simply using every tool available while still honoring the mystery.
If you’d like, I can also share a longer fertility activation ritual or a sacred conception map I’m co-creating. You're not alone in this.