Exactly, we are currently feeling our way through this. We are playing with zaps & that is not a bad thing.
Every zap is a signal much stronger than any like or share. As nostr grows, there will be things we don't like amplified & things we appreciate lost. We can use zaps & our follows/filters to correct this without creating silos & circle jerks.
Be careful not to zap from a place of neediness or guilt. Fear is a product of the scarcity mindset & we will leave it behind as we move towards a bitcoin standard. Scarce money promotes abundance, while fear reinforces beliefs in scarcity.
Abandon your fears & zap your unconditional love.