Does anybody have a good explainer video/article to help me understand using different LN wallets?

Here's what I think I know already:

WoS/Munn aren't actually LN wallets and do swaps in the background - they become too expensive to use when fees are high. Although they're convenience apps and showing newbies what LN is about.

Phoenix, Nunchuk, BitKit charge a routing fee for transactions but don't offer static addresses. These are non - custodial. (I use Phoenix most out of those three.)

I know about Alby, and it's ability to connect to nostr, although I haven't put in the time to figure out why I need it yet. Instead using Primal’s integrated wallet or WoS to recieve and send zaps - which I'd like to move away from.

I also use Strike for it's convenience in swapping my fiat, but never use it to buy stuff using sats. Litterally stack and move to cold storage.

I'm looking to streamline my experience without compromising privacy and keep some convenience.

#asknostr