I'm not talking about malicious stuff, but things like Amethyst draft events that rewrite the same addressable a thousillion times (I'm not sure this actually exists but I've heard it is a thing).
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I’ll have a look deeper. I haven’t paid much attention to Haven’s private relay since Inbox and Outbox are always the ones on fire, but apparently, I only have three kind 31234 events (Amethyst-style drafts) across all my relays. Draft events are certainly high-frequency, but as far as I can see, they aren’t bloating the database.
List and set events, on the other hand, have been the bane of my existence. That, along with the fact that Amethyst still doesn’t send the right events to the correct types of relays, remain my top two unsolved tech problems on Nostr. Vitor mentioned he was working on it, but it’s a non-trivial change given how much functionality has been built on top of the classical general relay model. Fingers crossed, both clients and relays will see some improvements this year. I’d prefer these two fixes over any new features.