The key, I found was, was asking myself this question - “Is everything I keep getting corralled into objectively good for me in ways that make me a happier, healthier, and or more resilient person, even as I resist them at first?”

With my wife the answer is always a resounding yes. So……

Admit defeat and submit to happiness. It is not hard. 👁️🧘🏿‍♂️🔮