the only option is GrapheneOS on a Pixel at the moment (due to the bootloader)

stock Android = Google sells your personal information

stock Samsung Android = Google and Samsung both sell your personal information

iPhone = Apple privacy washes you and sells your information

it would be nice if there was a GrapheneOS type OS for iPhones but there is not, yet... sadly

there are no rules on who these companies sell your data to including the police, governments, and others or on who these companies resell your data to

it took me about a year to completely divorce Apple, their ecosystem is set up to lock you in

people like to joke about the old Google 'we're not evil' and now they are evil... Apple under Tim Cook = the same evil