Women vary in their need for drama and bulls--t.

Some who _need_ a lot of drama get it via their work, or their hobbies. The rest, from their relationships (or friends/family if they're not in a relationship).

I remember the girlfriend of a client confessing to me at length (we were out drinking) that she only values and respects bad men, and always cheats on good men.

Well, her boyfriend was and is both strong and bad (I've known him more than a decade) and she cheated on him anyway. May have hesitated more than usual, no way to tell.

She was high need-for-drama, not desiring strength. A common source of confusion, especially for us guys...