Are people having smooth experiences on #damus or other Nostr apps?

95% of stuff works well but I still get:

- delayed notifications

- only partial thread views / threads slow to load

- delayed DMs

It doesn’t seem specific to any one client - no single client has a flawless experience for me yet, so perhaps it’s more of a relay issue?

I love #damus btw

I’ve started to become a bit paranoid that I’m missing a notification, DM, etc.

So far I’ve been using #damus on mobile, #iris and #nostrgram on desktop

I’ve paid for and use #eden and #nostr.wine relays

Is it just still early? Is this the nature of a decentralized protocol? Is it all dependent on the relays?