I hope I understand your question, Use coracle.
Discussion
Coracle is showing (for example this note: note1jhc2y7mw9r5erhw9dnjndc2nl28v462krdpd2l96jf53dnarl7tqn3s26h) being posted to three relays while Amethyst says 8 relays. Both clients are wrong, the note should be on more relays.
Coracle does that for sure. I supposedly post to 20 relays, and it always says 2 to 8 or 10 tops. That said, a good chunk of the notes I post there are missing from Damus and vice versa, although in theory I'm using the same relays.