The sole purpose of dictators is to own slaves.

That is, to control someone's life.

In their personal relationships, parenting roles, marriages, friendships, work lives,

This phrase describes them perfectly.

"Keep starve, let obey.

Keep ignorant, let allegiance."

via Aziz Nesin

I don't know how exactly "biat etmek" is translated into English.

It's not ordinary commitment.

to be attached to someone unconditionally, without thinking, as if blinded by love, in a hooligan way. Never criticize. Getting angry when criticized. Dying for them, killing someone for them"