I know what you mean, it’s hard. I once spoke to this lovely lady who was in her 60s and she told me that whoever I end up dating I could potentially end up spending the next 75 years with them, so it’s okay to be a little picky 🥹🫂 if they don’t add anything good to your life (and vice versa) then it might not be worth it. Also, could you have thousands of dinners with that person/ kiss them a thousand times and potentially not enjoy it? I also heard from my friend Joe who’s in his 50s and been with his girlfriend for I think over 14 years that compromise is key. It all depends on what you’re willing to compromise on 🙏🏽 🫂🫂🫂 this is a fair thing to be picky about I reckon