BlueWallet works fine if you’re using Alby or LightningTipBot as your LNDHub, and of course it works with any LND node if you run one. #[3]​ has even more Lightning customization, and the UX is 🔥.

The problem with Zebedee is that it’s a fully permissioned system and they keep pushing KYC on you, and use IP detection to block payments from certain areas. Seems to run against the bitcoin ethos.

You can self-custody your Lightning sats on Phoenix, but no zaps there.