this is really a valid question. Frankly it is a hard problem, and its why I like too much bitcoin. It permit to lower the power all the states (mostly, with large approssimations and case studies) at the same time, and empower individuals in a decentralized distributed way. So we can fight the state without risking to "kill only our state just to end to be slave of the confinant state".
Overflowing their money-printers saving in bitcoin will not end the states, but will lower by order of magnitudes their power and is a concrete step in the right direction.
An ancap weapon that works consistently in the real world!
My goal would be having a state with lower and lower powers, and end in a situation where we can "deliberately associate" and privately reform the minimal structures for global cooperation based on consensus.
Anarchy is when we deliberately cooperate and assist each others, not necessarly a continuos violent environment.
And I'm so confident in humanity that I think a anarchy environment would be mostly good to live in, even if more adversarial than what we have today in strong democratic state (thats mostly a feature).