Honestly just seeing your SO for whose she is and embracing it 100. You feel in love with her for a reason.

Like Guy said making them laugh goes a long way to keeping your relationship alive and fun. Don’t take life too seriously we are only here for a short amount of time, have fun with the person you choose to be with. If you can keep that in mind the rest is easy.

Took me about 15 years to figure this life lesson out but I can tell you I’ve never been happier. If she makes you happy put in the effort my friend! It worth it!