It really doesn’t make sense to go this route! Very dumb
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It's the only route right now if you want
Decentralization
+ Privacy
+ Censorship-resistance.
Use simplex! Spin up your smp and xftp servers over the tor
Nostr is just easier. But sure, SimpleX with my own server would be my second option.
Nostr isn’t easier and not designed for the private messages. Full stop !