Huh I wonder what would happen if you focused on the love you have
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Maybe.
I was always told. You need to focus on yourself. It learn to live yourself. Which I think I doπ€·π½
But yeah a lesson I've learned over and over and over in life is don't care what people think. People like me better when I do what I want π€·π½
So I've been kind of just not caring since this most recent ex. Not looking or trying like at all. And I've actually had pretty ok luck with people coming up to be instead. It's flattering and I know they're actually interested I guess rather than the 50/50.
Danny Trejo once said "Son, you're the tequila, not the chaser."
That Danny Trejo quote is π₯ I will say on reflection tequila that your shooting and need a chaser with is not the best tequila. Iβd rather be better sipped.
I think the way most people go about learning to love themselves is bs. Love and relationships donβt happen in isolation. I do think the society we live in places too much emphasis on romantic love. Sometimes people need to step back from dating. They can still practice their ability to give and receive love in other relationships. I guess I default to the idea, for it is in giving, we receive.
Danny Trejo quote may or may not be made upπ€·π½ but someone said it?!
But I took not being the chaser to mean don't go out and go after it so hard. The people want the tequila whether they're shooting or sippinπ€·π½
That second paragraph his me right here π€ I need to ponder that π€π€
Like all my art is basically about that. Ideals, wishes, dreams, and ofuscations of things long pastπ€·π½ boiled down to one word, Love.
Iβve been single for a while so I should probably make a conscious effort to date. Itβs exhausting. Where Iβm currently located the dating pool is more like a mud puddle. Also I would like to relocate. So it just seems rude to date here.
I want.
But exhaustion is a good word.
Same here, but it's a dating ocean full of Communists that don't know they're Communists. I'm like a 1%er here. Looking at moving to the tropics soon. 6 month timeline.