> you could just as easily argue that by NOT soft forking to CTV, you are censoring my CTV transactions that I want to publish.

I agree and I do make that argument

> One is voluntary and peaceful, the other is violent and prevents others from listening

IMO there is such a thing as peaceful, nonviolent censorship. E.g. when a university disinvites a conservative speaker who planned to say anti-woke things, that's definitely censorship, but it's not necessarily violent.