See you're reading it like a guy, and that's wrong.

He's:

- Tall

- Handsome

- Considerate

- Skilled

- Humble

- Can push her hobby/status to extreme heights

Being talented isn't always a sure hit, but some girls REALLY love it when they see a man exhibit excellence in one form or another. Women don't think about *being* the thing themselves, they'd rather be the spouse of the thing instead.