We were brainwashed to believe LGBTQ people are some crazy rainbow haired fetishists or whatever. These exist, but are the very tiny loud minority and they dont represent the rest. You don't have to like them.

The vast majority are just normal people, you wouldn't even know that they're lgbtq. This is who we support. It isn't up to anyone to decide on who people can marry or what people want to identify as. Just accept them and move on. It's really not hard, especially if you are libertarian