It was a long journey and one comment didn't do it for me either.
Nostr has the highest per capita agorists of any place I know of. Watch and see them speak for themselves for a while. Who is kinder in interactions? Who holds positions that seem most rational and coherent to you?
Having true confidence I'm right gives me the ability to not be impatient or try to force my beliefs on you or anyone else. You'll see it when you are ready if you are ready some day.