I guess I see, that you mean you hate them complaining.

I just wanted to point out, that no matter how much they complain, this won't get better for them, and they will have a miserable life until they learn to value effort and hard work. (Also until they learn un-aimed hard work is also pointless...)

Most probably noone will solve this for them. It serves noone, that they demand everything as early in life as they are for putting no effort in it.