It's not really hyperbole. This summer I had a girl that I was chatting up because we shared a lot of common interests suddenly start sending me nudes. We didn't know each other, we weren't in a relationship, but she would end up getting drunk and sending me shit all that time that I didn't not want to see. It didn't titillate me, it wasn't exciting, it was just kind of gross and made me lose interest in her real fast. In the end it just became some kind of weird therapy session where she would get drunk, start realizing how bad she fucked up her life, start send me nudes, I would tell her to stop, and it would end up becoming a therapy session where I would have to spend an hour telling her she wasn't ugly, just that I didn't want to see it.

If you send that stuff to a man you barely know at best he is just going to see you as a piece of meat to be use for his own self gratification, and at worst he is going to see you as a whore.

I mean great, if a woman just wants to be used up and thrown away that is an amazing strategy. If you want to be loved, then you need to act like you are actually worth it. No one wants to marry and start a family with a whore. I mean for fucks sake would you want to marry the kind of man that would be willing to marry a prostitute? This is shit is a two way street.