anecdotal af, but it feels like all the little boys i am around due to my daughter being 3... so,preschool or play dates, etc....seems like their parents give the boys so much more of a pass than girls.. like boys will be boys kinda thing but i think it sets them up poorly from the get go to not handle adversity, embarrassment, responsibility.
now its not fair the other way i think parents expect too much of their little girls too quickly...but thats another issue. anyways i think people let boys be boys too much...then they turn into little bitches.