A person has to be READY to date AND their heart properly mended & healed after a breakup of a serious, longterm romantic relationship.

Rushing too soon into a relationship usually will NOT last, except RARE occasions when 2 people who are PERFECTLY love ❤️❤️ matched meet (irl).

And sharing a meal like oatmeal or porridge with another person is a very intimate thing between 2 people, cuz a bit unsanitary.

I don’t really like another person dipping into MY food, without asking first, and ONLY if I am very close and intimate with that person.

Otherwise, back the fk off!