So I'm not quite exactly sure how to phrase these feelings, but I'm going to try anyways.
I was at my local after work watering hole. Like I usually am on a Saturday. And I observed a dude looking around the place almost as much as I was, just kind of checking out the crowd and whatnot, but seemingly for different reasons. He looked like he was intently looking for someone or something.
I observed him hit on several of the servers there. Then I proceeded to watch him single out a female who was alone at the bar. I happened to know her or at least vaguely. She's friends with the people who work there. I think she was in on her day off grabbing dinner and a drink.
It seemed predatory the way he scanned the area singled out the one lone female and then proceeded to bother her as she was trying to finish her dinner.
Maybe my brain is wired weirdly, but this sort of predatory behavior seems inexcusable. What did he hope to gain? Did he really think that going and hitting on some random chick enjoying her dinner would make her lust after him so she would go home with him?
I know I am human, but there are certain aspects of human behavior that genuinely confuse the fuck out of me.