I agree that fear of failure stops many and that we are all born with some sort of predisposition towards a skill, but it strikes me as a bit egotistical to ignore that someone/something outside of your control is what helped develop that.

At the very least, consider that you could have been a stain on a gym sock instead of a person. The fact that either of us are here is a magnificent stroke of luck!

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Oh of course. You can't discount the role luck plays in success. Not every opportunity plays out and the reasons they don't are usually outside your control.

What I don't like however is the opposite attitude to the arrogance you described. In the same way it's unfair to discredit that luck plays some role, it's equally unfair to attribute success to only luck.

💯 agree; they are two sides of the same coin. Neither can exist without the other. ☯️

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