Yep, we to that as well. But building lists is annoying. I wish a client would build them automatically.
what clients need to do is deprecate kind 3 and support named follow lists, and use algorithms to filter out lower quality notes
I am building this at https://nostr.thecaptain.dev
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I think that's where the grapevine idea can come into play. after a few people bootstrap some lists, clients could that automate some of the list generation process