Maybe you should just defer at the same time you're pushing your edit? If you trust the person enough to give them "write access" to your wiki you probably already trust their article enough and/or trust that they will merge your edit.
G could also add me as an editor, or not.
A side-benefit of this is that if I don't care too much about an entry and I'm just making a minor correction but don't care too much I can go UDP style and make the edit and add the person's entry I'm forking as an editor, that way I wouldn't have to go back to check if the person accepted my changes to defer my entry to them.
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