No worries, I have time. Fairly certain there’s a simple misunderstanding or we disagree on something fundamental. The fundamental disagreement seems unlikely.

I’ll try again.. the folks standing in the line you mentioned.. they’ve yet to realize there’s another way. They lack the information needed to “opt out” hell, they don’t even know there’s even an opting out option. When they become aware of an alternative, then they can choose to educate themselves on that alternative. Once educated, when the work has been put in (much as you did, I’m sure. I know I had to) then they can opt out.

Until then, they’ll continue standing in line unable to opt out.