Ah, well whitepills and blackpills are just mindsets, so they can neither be proven nor disproven, but maybe you'll have something to say to my rationalization for choosing one over the other.
If there is a scenario where a person will change for the better, only a whitepilled person could ever come to understand it, since they will always try to replicate it in new people. But if there is a scenario where a person will change for the worse, neither side will ever learn anything about it because neither side wants people to be worse.
I refuse to be some gay ass self help book though. If you won't poke a hole in my reasoning it could mean you just don't understand what I'm saying just as easily as it could mean that I'm correct.