no man should ever have to live vicariously through another man, but perhaps all of this was to teach a man a lesson about loving a woman without being able to touch her.

they say it takes men a long time to develop feelings, but women develop them the moment they have sex with a man. I think that this is true – I have never felt loved by a man I slept with too soon, and the only relationships I've ever had where I have been truly in love were the ones where it took a long time to develop feelings for each other before things became physical.

so there's that.