The peer pressure element is real: nostr:note1alvygnqz3w8sg8xzhcr8s0qgkxf2wr3nj6f7xf5kvs7vs8h0nrgsldmp3w

My missus had a lot of familial pressure, constant nagging by aunties and grannies and in-laws. From what I know her friends lacked that and got their behaviour reinforcement more from friends than family/community.

The lack of this dynamic certainly appears to be a major contributing factor.