riffing w/o context

planning to meet up at the grocery store?

& one person is saying,

sorry if you dont mind cant make it today. tomorrow?

cos thats normal to me

what are irl friends for?

isnt it hanging out & then being like:

i gotta get the dry cleaning, you staying here or tagging along?

i dont understand how this is an illustration of an attempt

that can be declined as a wrong ask

it doesnt sound like that from the words

those arent opening volley from

random nowhere words unless it is a spam number

to me anyway, entirely out of context

anyway, idk

no pressure,

but if you want to elaborate,

im curious as to what im misunderstanding😅