You know, I think my father and I came to an understanding after he had a surgery and he was filling some pain. He had just had heart surgery & my mom ( stepmom) & sisters were seeing him right after.

so I just used you know basic medical trainings. I started at the top of his head and went down. the catheter was inserted wrong and they came in and fixed it, and he fell asleep almost immediately. Yay 🥳

My point is my father always believed using your body was the way to make money and provide for the family and he did a very good job at it. Even if he raised all of us like we were boys. 🤣

Something happened after my father had heart surgery he just he became so much more loving and caring and empathetic and I truly believe that there’s something about like when someone actually dies. Something changes within them.