Send me your main BTC addresses, if you are so confident.

Han can send you their XMR address, and you won't know shit.

How can you fail to see the power differential ?

All your lightning support infra can be compromised through poor security practices, or damaged in a local event. So now you have to have redundant offsite systems that also require trust in third parties, just to guard against downtime.

All this is default in Monero. So Monerans are more efficient users than Bitcoin and Lightning users, their time does not need to be spent of troubleshooting, maintenance or updates of all the various systems just to have a worst version of privacy that can have operational channel issues and routing failures, or be custodied as with the most popular lightning clients.

Monerans can focus on building important problems, services and businesses in private while Bitcoiners are wasting countless man hours on problems it solved and deployed years ago.